This one was not the normal type I go for, but I decided as my normal type, wasn't quite working out, I'd try something different. We met for the usual afternoon coffee. I arranged to meet him in a car park near the shops, as I wasn't sure where the coffee shop was. When I arrived, he had already bought my parking ticket - good start! He wouldnt let me walk roadside and opened the coffee shop door for me. We had a really nice date and got on very well. Although I didn't fancy him, but I decided I wouldnt rule him out as he had a lot of other qualities which were very appealing. We arranged to meet again a few days later. I asked him what he would like to do for our 2nd date and he said he would go along with whatever I wanted to do. We met for sunday lunch. He wasn't sure of what places were worth going to, so I chose the venue and the time to meet. We had lunch and again had a very nice afternoon. We arranged to meet again, but said we would decide nearer the time as to what and when. I texted him a couple of days later and asked what he would like to do. He once again said it was up to me and he was happy to do whatever I wanted. I suggested we went to the cinema and asked him if there was any films he wanted to see as I didn't mind what. He again said he was happy for me to pick. Alarm bells started ringing. Could this guy actually make a decision.

It's all very well the guy leaving the wman to decide, but now and again a lady likes to be surprised and have a bit of decisiveness in a relationship. This was started to grate on me. We went to the pictures and again had a nice evening. I suggested we eat as well, and again I chose the restaurant. We went to eat and while looking at the menu, I asked him what he was planning to eat. He replied with "I don't know, what are you having". I told him my choice and he chose the same. That was for me the last straw. I couldnt handle this. I told him I wasnt happy to continually make the decisions and that I wanted a man who could be decisive and surprise me from time to time. He told me he was no good at that sort of thing and it was at that point that I knew it was over.

I said my goodbyes and knew I was never going to see him again.